This post explores mood swings during the menopause transition as a natural consequence of hormonal change, particularly fluctuating oestrogen and declining progesterone. Rather than framing these emotional shifts as something to suppress or medicate away, it invites a reframe: what if changing hormones are simply removing the “buffer” that once made difficult people, patterns, or situations tolerable?As progesterone, the body’s calming hormone falls, emotional reactivity can increase, revealing underlying frustrations or unmet needs that may have been ignored for years. The post encourages reflection over judgement, reminding us that humans are biologically designed to experience hormonal cycles, not emotional flatness.Ultimately, it positions menopause-related mood changes as potential signals for growth and change—a nudge towards addressing what truly matters, setting healthier boundaries, and moving towards a more fulfilled and authentic future.